Holidays Category

Superstitions: New Year

Happy New Year 2017New Year falls on different dates for different countries and religions. But in all cases there is a great significance on the fact that how it is started will be an omen for how the rest of the year will pan out. So not surprisingly there are a number of rituals that people follow at this time of year.

Do you do any of these?

  • Red envelopes are given to children in China as part of their New Year celebrations; the envelopes contain money and are seen as lucky. The activity is carried out to bring that child success and wealth in the coming year.
  • An old superstition is that something must come into the house before something leaves on New Year’s Day. This was often achieved by leaving a candle burning during New Year’s Eve until the next day. In those days the need for light, heat and cooking fuel for the whole year were paramount and so rituals focussed on achieving that.

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Collateral Beauty

Collateral Beauty Movie PosterUnusually for a big film with a star-studded cast there hasn’t been a huge amount of information released about the movie – Collateral Beauty, which is out in the UK on the 26th December, but from what I have read I think it is set to be a poignant tear-jerker.

Will Smith plays a once-successful businessman, having suffered a terribly personal tragedy; he falls into a deep depression. His friends played by Edward Norton, Kate Winslet and Michael Peña  rally around him, but even with their support and a passing of time he is unable to move forward. At this point with no clue as to what to do, he begins to write things down. He writes letters, but they are not too anybody, but are written in the abstract to things like ‘time’, ‘love’ and ‘death’.

The surprising twist in the film without giving too much away is that they write back! Helen Mirren plays death, Jacob Latimore is time and Keira Knightley stands for love… (more…)

Spiritual Crystals for Autumn Equinox

CrystalsThe Autumn Equinox is a balance of night and day, before winter takes over and brings with it a cloak of blackness, but rather than being a depressing time, it can be one of spiritual awakening, overcoming our inner darkness and embracing enlightenment.

In the UK the Autumn Equinox will take place on the 22nd September at 14.21 GMT. Why not make it a magical time where you focus your energies to prepare for the winter ahead and create balance in your life and surroundings, develop goals and clear thinking and prepare for stability and growth.

Below is a series of gems that you can use alongside affirmations or as part of meditation to bring yourself harmony, self-confidence, good health and prosperity. (more…)

John’s thoughts on Christmas, PIN: 5152

Christmas World Globe BaublesPsychic Reader John tells us all about Christmas around the globe.

Christmas is all about celebrating, having a lovely time, and especially for the children the excitement of presents. Wherever we are in the world there will be enjoyment, and in different parts of the globe people do things differently for example: in Spain most families eat their main Christmas meal on Christmas Eve before the service. The traditional Spanish Christmas dinner is ‘Pavo Trufado de Navidad’ which is turkey stuffed with truffles (the mushrooms, not the chocolate ones)! In Galicia (a region in north-west Spain, surrounded by water), the most popular meal for Christmas Eve and for Christmas Day is seafood. This can be all kinds of different seafood, from shellfish and molluscs, to lobster and small edible crabs. Yet in Australia, Christmas comes in the middle of the summer holidays! Children have their summer holidays from mid-December to early February, so some people might even be camping at Christmas…

Statistics show that the average British family will have at least five arguments on Christmas Day! At a time when the sentiment should be to spend time with loved ones, relax and have fun. So, “make your expectations realistic and appreciate the time spent with your family.”

Of course we must not forget the people who don’t want to celebrate, either because they are on their own, have lost a loved one, or for any other reason…So try and remember them and include them in your holiday plans in a way that will make them feel loved and supported.

Winter Solstice

shutterstock_116489731The Winter Solstice will take place on the 22nd December this year at 04.38 (GMT), exactly as the Sun is overhead the Tropic of Capricorn. It will usher in the shortest day of the year and welcome in the longest night for those in the Northern Hemisphere.

The Night Has a Thousand Eyes

The night has a thousand eyes,

And the day but one;

Yet the light of the bright world dies

With the dying sun

 

The mind has a thousand eyes,

And the heart but one;

Yet the light of a whole life dies

When love is gone.

 

By Francis William Bourdillon,

Ref: Best-Loved Poems

 

The word ‘Solstice’ hails from two Latin words – ‘Sol’ meaning Sun and ‘Sistere’ meaning to stand still. The solstice is actually an astrological event that happens twice per year. The Sun will briefly be stationary before changing direction.

The word ‘Yule’ often described the Winter Solstice period, and for thousands of years people have celebrated the season as a time to come together, to be with family and to look forward to the New Year to come. The Suns rebirth was rejoiced as it meant the end of another harsh cold winter and a celebration of having survived.

Even though for most of us the changing of the season is not as important to our survival; many still like to celebrate the solstice period and to draw on the positive energy the cycle brings.

For many this will mean a trip to Stonehenge which has a sightline that points to the Winter Solstice Sunset. It is believed that both the Summer and Winter Solstice were marked by the layout of the stones and the position of the Avenue. Standing in the centre of the circle you can see the Sun rise next to the Heel Stone during the Summer Solstice and for the Winter Solstice the Sun sets between the stones of the tallest trilithon.

If you can’t go to Stonehenge there are other ways to celebrate: You could burn a Yule log (traditionally oak) in a fireplace. Decorate your home with seasonal colours of red, green and white – think holly, ivy, mistletoe and evergreens. Lastly write your goals, dreams and resolutions on a piece of paper for the coming year and keep it safe.

Halloween Quiz – Answers

Halloween Carved Pumpkin

Having written about Halloween for many years, I was wracking my brain for a different take on things for this October. When it came to me! I should test how much you remember from my previous articles + what else you might know, so a Halloween quiz was born. If you missed the Questions post, then visit here first – and only come back to the Answers when you have tried your best!

Answers

A1. All Hallows Eve; All Hallows’ Day, All Saints’ Day, All Souls’ Day, Samhain, Hallowe’en & Days of the Dead.

A2. Turnips originally, now pumpkins.

A3. Souling.

A4. It would mean that your house was haunted and that ghosts had let in the bats.

A5. Because it would mean the spirit of a deceased love one was watching over you.

A6. The Crone (also known as the Earth Mother).

A7. They believed that after death, all souls would enter the cauldron and stirring would bring about reincarnation.

A8. Festival of Pamonia – Pamona being the Goddess of nature – fruit and trees.

A9. Black, navy or deep purple – all used for letting go of fear. Orange for joy and immortality.

A10. Cypress, ferns, nutmeg, sage, dittany and pine.

A11. Bobbing for apples.

A12. Saturday – October 31 – 2020.

A13. So that when evil spirits came, they would not recognise you.

A14. Samhainopobia.

A15. River Phoenix & Harry Houdini.

Halloween Quiz – Questions

Halloween Skyline

Having written about Halloween for many years, I was wracking my brain for a different take on things for this October. When it came to me! I should test how much you remember from my previous articles + what else you might know, so a Halloween quiz was born.
It’s just for fun – but no peeking and no checking Google, until you are finished!

Questions

Q1. Around the globe and within different faiths there are alternative names/dates for Halloween – name 3.

Q2. What were Jack ‘O’ Lanterns originally carved from? And what are they carved in now?

Q3. In England and Ireland a form of trick or treating began many years ago where children would go from door to door singing and saying prayers for the dead in return for cakes. What was this activity called?

Q4. If a bat flew in to your house on Halloween – what would that mean?

Q5. Many of us dislike spiders, but why might we want to see one on Halloween?

Q6. The symbol of a witch during Halloween is actually depicting which Pagan Goddess?

Q7. What does the ‘witches cauldron’ mean to The Celts?

Q8. What Roman festival are candy apples associated with?

Q9. What colour candles should you use as part of your Halloween celebrations?

Q10. What herbs/incense would you choose for Halloween rituals?

Q11. What Halloween game is associated with finding out who will marry next?

Q12. A full moon on Halloween does not occur very often – when will the next one be?

Q13. Why did dressing up on Halloween first start?

Q14. The fear of Halloween actually has an official name, what is it?

Q15. A famous American actor and a famous magician died on different Halloween’s – can you name them?

Answers in the next post…

Fun in the Sun

burnt toast representing sunburnA recent poll carried out by The Royal Pharmaceutical Society demonstrated that 80% of us did not know what SPF protection means! 56% did not realise that SPF is only in relation to UVB rays and not UVA. The end result – clearer labelling is needed on sun protection products, perhaps moving to a much simpler system of low, medium, high and very high protection taking in to account the UVA & UVB components.

Perhaps equally as concerning was that over 50% of the people are never using sun protection and 15% of those with children were not checking for a UVA rating.

So, this cause for different labelling is a great idea but it is not going to help us right now. So whether you are staying in the UK or are jetting off on holiday here is the lowdown on what you need to know to protect you and your family in the sun:

1) Go for a broad spectrum sun screen that has UVA & UVB Protection.

2) Use an SPF factor 15 as a minimum to protect against UVB rays. Sun factors rely on you knowing how long it would take for you to burn without using sun screen. So if you would normally burn in 10 minutes (unprotected), then using a factor 15 would allow you to be protected for 150 minutes. When in doubt – go higher.

3) In the UK, UVA protection appears as a star rating on the bottle, from 0 – 5 stars. The higher the star the greater the protection.

4) When purchasing sun screen – check that it is not past its expiry date. Sometimes it is okay to use last year’s sun screen; they can have a life of several years. They need to have been stored in a cool location out of direct sunlight. Check the bottle, as there will be a manufacturing logo on it showing how long it can be used for after opening.

5) You should aim to spend time in the shade when the sun is at its hottest – between 11am – 3pm.

6) Apply sun screen before you go out and reapply regularly. Most people miss bits and also use a lot less than the recommended amount. Don’t forget to protect your scalp. Sweating in the heat and swimming will also remove the product, even if you are using a waterproof version, so keep topping up.

7) It is a misconception that a ‘base tan’ will protect you. Also do not be lulled in to staying in the sun longer or applying lotion less frequently because you have used a high factor product.

8) Lastly, remember to also protect your eyes. Look for a CE or British Standard mark when purchasing. You want glasses with a 100% UV protection.

None of us want to get burnt in the sun, but occasionally we do get caught out. If you are worried, then regular checking of skin and keeping an eye on any moles is a good idea. For moles follow the ABCD route:

A = Asymmetry, check if the two halves of your mole look different.
B = Border, check to see if the border of the mole is blurred, irregular or jagged.
C = Colour, check if the mole is uneven or has more than one shade/colour.
D = Diameter, look to see if any of your moles are wider than 6mm (which is about the size of an eraser at the end of a pencil).

You are now all set, for safe fun in the sun – enjoy!

Summer Solstice

StonehengeSummer Solstice, sometimes called Midsummer or Litha is a major celestial event, resulting in the longest day and the shortest night of the year for those living in the Northern Hemisphere. Sol and stice are a combination of Latin words meaning Sun and to stand still.

Great spiritual significance is attached to the date, with humans having been amazed at the powers of the sun for thousands of years. Christians place the feast of John the Baptist towards the end of June, Celts celebrated with bonfires to add to the suns energy and it is also the festival of Li – the Chinese Goddess of light.

Druids celebrate the day as the wedding of Heaven & Earth whilst Pagans call it the Honey Moon after the mead made from fermented honey. Ancient Pagans celebrated with bonfires similar to Celts, alongside wearing protective garlands of herbs and flowers such as St Johns Wort (still used today by many herbalists as a mood stabiliser).

Many believe that it is a time to celebrate growth and life, but also to recognise the balance needed in ones life and the world in general and to acknowledge the shifting of seasons, as the sun begins to decline again towards winter.

English Heritage are providing “Managed Open Access” to Stonehenge for the Summer Solstice on the 20th & 21st June 2015. As it falls on a weekend, there is likely to a build-up of traffic, and as such they strongly advise using public transport.

You can keep up to date on Twitter: @eh_stonehenge

SOLSTICE CAR PARK OPENS 19.00 hours (7pm) Saturday 20 June

ACCESS TO STONEHENGE MONUMENT FIELD19.00 hours (7pm) Saturday 20 June

LAST ADMISSION TO SOLSTICE CAR PARK 06.00 hours (6am) Sunday 21 June – or earlier if full

STONEHENGE MONUMENT FIELD CLOSES 08.00 hours (8am) Sunday 21 June

SOLSTICE CAR PARK TO BE VACATED 12.00 hours (12 Noon) Sunday 21 June

• Sunset on Saturday 20 June 2015 is at 21.26 hrs (9.26pm)
• Sunrise on Sunday 21 June 2015 is at 04.52 hrs (4.52am)

A Christmas Message, by Rachel (PIN: 5544)

Nativity 2013 A6Christmas is meant to be a happy holiday for us – a time to tap in to our divinity, a time to reflect on God, who gave us his son, to be born only to die. Yet Christmas now means something different for each and every one of us.

Many children simply recognise Christmas as that great time of year that they receive a sack full of gifts. And in all probability the nearest they get to the essence of what the real meaning is all about is if they perform in the school nativity.

For many parents, Christmas can cause financial stress and worry. It can be a time of trepidation – having to entertain and cook for family they haven’t seen since last Christmas! For mums especially the sheer volume of extra work can take its toll. The holiday can also have a bit of an anti-climactic feel, once presents have been opened, and that moment of anticipation and surprise have gone for another year…

And of course there are many who because of bereavement or break up’s will find themselves facing a lonely Christmas, where they feel no one really cares about them.

Yet if just for that one day, we can allow ourselves to put our emotions aside and simply focus on the symbolic message of Christmas – we will find comfort.

I turn to Archangel Gabriel – Gods messenger who visited Joseph in his dream, and told him: ‘Mary will give birth to a son, the Messiah our Saviour’. If at Christmas you are feeling loneliness or despair, if you are struggling with doubts or fears – then give Angel Gabriel permission to enter your dream-state, he will give you guidance and reassurance to assist you on your life’s journey. Reach out and ask for support – you do not have to tread this path alone.

I also turn to the stars – The Star that shone its radiant white light that led the way to the stable, so the three wise men could deliver their gifts to Jesus. The Star therefore is a heavenly gift to us, it’s a sign of promise, and God promised and delivered a Saviour. Wish upon a star tonight, for it symbolises hope always. Let this light enter you, to encourage you not to give up, but to look up and believe…

Isn’t it reassuring to know, we all share the same heavens, no matter where we are in the world, no matter who we are?

At this Yule Tide, I wish you all Health, Happiness and Love.

Rachel

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